Sexual Body de-armouring can be part of your Tantra Session or can be booked as a separate session. The idea behind it is that every experience is stored in the cellular memory of the physical body (also called pain-body) because often memories that invoke painful, uncomfortable, disturbing feelings and thoughts, are not felt in the moment but repressed and unexpressed. Why? Because we are so used to wanting to only feel “good” and “nice” feelings.
Especially in our sexual encounters we tend to collect and hold on to “stuff” that is not comfortable to feel and look at: guilt, shame, performance anxiety, feelings of abandonment and rejection, numbness, disconnection, and so on. All these energies will not go away just because we choose not to deal with them. They are stored in the body and will lead to energetic blocks, or more simply put, they will have a limiting effect on the natural energy flow of the body, and will lead to contraction and tension. In the long run might lead to physical pain, loss of sexual libido, and a number of other symptoms.
In a de-armouring session we use strong pressure on specific points of the body, including, but not limited to: the genital areas, heart, stomach. I encourage free expression through sound and movement, and guide you to breathe consciously to bring expansion and awareness to these areas. This can be a painful experience sometimes, but we only go as far as you are ready to go. It is not the goal of the session to cause pain – the goal is for you to become aware of the pain that is already there, and, by becoming aware of it, breathing into it, and expressing it, to be able to let it go. This way often new spaces open in the body, which is a starting point to deeper sensitivity and pleasure.
With men, we work also with the lingam and the anus. The anus often holds great amounts of tension. It is the “base” of our most primal instincts, fears and worries. Releasing tension from this area can be a life-changing experience. It is your body that guides in these sessions, which means that we might work internally already in the first session, but might also just need to give space to other areas first. It might take a series of sessions to experience a true expansion, although in most cases the first session can already create profound openings. Ideally we suggest a succession of 3 sessions a week-ten days apart. However, our body requires constant maintenance. I usually suggest receiving a session once every 4-6 weeks. If interested, I can teach you some self-treatment techniques to use in between sessions.
With women, we work both outside and inside of the yoni. You are always in charge of your session – we move to work around the yoni when your are ready, and we will move inside only if you request it. Working inside of the yoni can bring up many different feelings from pleasure through shame, guilt and anger to pain and vulnerability. Often we need to move through some pain or numbness to be able to get to pleasure. It is all welcome. You are welcome with all that you are.
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