Tantra Massage for Men
You are warmly welcome exactly as you are whether you are new to Tantra Massage or experienced in Tantra and energy work. Tantra Massage is an individual experience depending on where you are in your life right now. We welcome everything that is present: the pleasurable feelings and thoughts and also the painful ones, and everything in between, including the emotional, physical, mental, spiritual and sexual aspects. You are invited to feel, to keep an open and inquisitive mind and to receive your body’s reactions with acceptance and compassion.
The body stores much of what we have experienced in our lives on a cellular level. Tantra Massage offers an opportunity to reconnect with the body on a deeper level and to gain more self-knowledge and understanding. In a Tantra Massage session you are encouraged to stay present, alert and aware of what is going on in your body, heart and mind.
We start with a talk and follow with a short meditation. This is to support you to arrive fully into the body and to start getting into the pattern of conscious breathing. You are welcome to be naked in your session, most people prefer this, but you are also welcome to take off clothes as and when you feel ready. In my sessions I wear underwear at all times. This is part of my boundary, and I kindly request for you to respect that.
This is not a sexual service, and I do not look to fulfill sexual fantasies. It is a space for you to relax, to open up more deeply to your feminine side, and to receive.
You will find that in the world of “Neo Tantra”, especially here in the West, pretty much every therapist does their own thing. A Tantra Massage session will be different depending on who you go to. Generally speaking, the reason why I do this work is because I believe that we are deeply deprived of physical touch and intimacy in our lives. I want to teach you to slow down and feel. I want to show you that there is so much more to pleasure than a quicky before bedtime.
I hold a space of deep presence, acceptance and authenticity. The human body is sacred for me, whatever its shape or form. It is not my intention to fulfil any sexual desires, but rather to bring you back to yourself.
Breath, Sound and Movement
You are encouraged to breathe consciously during your session. Breath is a good indicator of how you relate to your own body, and it’s a telling sign of tension. Often we experience sexual desire as tension in the body, because of how we are used to making love and reach an orgasm – but this does not have to be so. With guided conscious breathing, we can dissolve tension in the body just by becoming aware of it. Breath is also a key to deeper joy and pleasure in the body, and the easiest way to move energy.
You are also invited to allow your body to move in its natural way, no matter what your brain is saying. Moving the body is also a way to open further. Sometimes tension leaves the body through shaking, which is totally natural.
Our repressed emotions are often stored in the body. When we swallow our anger, or pain, we diminish the free flow of energy. Putting sound to our experience can be amazingly liberating and helpful in opening those little boxes we chose not to look into. Often we don’t even need to know what is happening or to express with words – sound reaches its healing power just by being “let out”. Experimenting with sounding and resonance can also be a helpful tool in maintaining a steady sexual performance – as can breath.
In a Tantra Massage we also include the genitals. Just this part of the massage can be a unique experience to many people – since we typically only touch or are touched here during sex. Touching of the genitals is often shadowed by confusion about performance and achievement or the feeling that we need to “do” something in order to reach a goal. In Tantra Massage we include the genitals as part of the body and encourage you to receive pleasure in a relaxed way, without worrying about a goal that you need to get to. Ejaculation might occur, but is NOT the purpose of this massage.
Communication and agreements
In the beginning of the session we have a short talk, to clarify thoughts and possible expectations, fears or worries. We talk about boundaries, and this will be the grounds on which we can safely work together. I will ask you about your short sexual history and present life situation. I encourage clear, open communication. I believe it is essential that we own our desires and needs and also accept the other person’s answer as their truth in the moment. Please communicate clearly if you for example would like to touch back or want to receive a different kind of touch.
We will also have a short check-in in the end of your session, to make sure that you feel complete. Tantra Massage can trigger some processes and it is important that we address anything like that before you leave, and also, that you feel grounded and safe.
Please note that the treatment time INCLUDES the introduction talk and integration after.
Before booking a treatment please read the General Guidelines here!
120 min 200 € / 2000 SEK
150 min 250 € / 2500 SEK